I have read many articles about how other mothers felt they lost their identities when they became mothers.Well I havent lost mine. More annoying than loosing something mine just went to live under the huge pile washing in the kitchen , the bathroom that needs moping & the nightly dinner that needs preparing between home work & bath time . I didn’t start this blog and call myself The UnNatural Mother because I felt I was a bad mother , more I was bad at everything else that comes with being a mother. No where in Miriam Stoppards books does it tell you how to roast a chicken or how to get the housework done when your teething baby won’t be put down.Who has time for an identity when you are an unpaid skivy ? This week my hubby is away with work so I have decided to sod the house work , eat out at friends each night & dug my personality out of the washing pile. Life is too short and what’s the worst that can happen , the dust will just collects for another day !!!!!